Modern Day Elopement
Why couples are choosing to elope
Let’s start by busting the myth surrounding elopements:
Gone are the days where elopements were a secretive way to get married, running to the courthouse last minute. They have certainly come a long way from going to Vegas and getting married by Elvis.
Elopements are chosen today by many couples as an authentic and meaningful way of getting married, while putting themselves and their relationship first on their wedding day, rather than spending their energy on details and traditions that are not close to their hearts.
Why elope?
Couples elope for many different reasons – some are looking to skip the traditional ceremonies and avoid having to deal with the stress and drama or family dynamics that are often involved in planning a traditional wedding. Some are simply looking for something more private and intimate, and others are just spontaneous by nature, always looking for an unconventional adventure, or perhaps trying to save money for a new life together.
Eloping doesn’t mean you have to give up traditions – it simply means rejecting anything you don’t like. Just because you’re eloping doesn’t mean that the day isn’t special – it’s still your wedding and there is reason to be excited and celebrate. You can still have the romantic ceremony, the dress, the bouquet, the photographer, and the exotic destination with your nearest and dearest (if you choose them to take part). It’s all about making the day just how you and your partner want it to be.
There is something magical and freeing in creating your own perfect wedding day, just like you’ve always dreamed.
Another myth is that elopements are rushed, last-minute events, and are often symbolised as a romantic way of ‘living on the edge’. The fact of the matter is that they don’t have to be! Just running away to make it official isn’t enough – you will need some basic planning, while some elopements can actually take months of planning and are often not a last-minute thing. Having said that, you can still definitely plan a spontaneous, spur-of-the-moment elopement that could be just as special. But having an intimate, or a last minute wedding doesn’t mean you’re completely on your own – we can help you plan your special day and take the stress off, making it an experience you’ll never forget.
Destination wedding or destination elopement?
Elopement can be a solution for couples that dream of a destination wedding but who are on a budget, and can’t afford the costs of all the guests. Instead of spending all their money on a big wedding for friends and family, some couples prefer to put it towards an amazing getaway to Greece to say their “I do”s, and unlike a destination wedding where they will have to be dealing with the challenges of bigger guest lists, their attendance and travel – with a destination elopement the adventure is all up to them, and there are far less limitations.
A Wedding and Honeymoon – all in one
With honeymoon being the highlight for some newlyweds, many couples are looking for ways to combine them both, and to optimise budgets and time. If planned right, you can tie your elopement into your honeymoon and make one big trip out of it – you can have the destination wedding you’re dreaming of and a honeymoon, all in one go, especially if you choose a destination such as Greece!
Something intimate and adventures
Eloping allows you to have more intimacy and privacy during the moment you vow to spend the rest of your life with one another. Imagine exchanging vows on a magical beach at sunset, or with a view of mountains at your back. It’s all possible when you elope! You decide how it will be, and that means you can include a few close friends and family with you on your special day. eloping gives you the freedom to create the day you want.
Is it a good idea to elope?
No matter if you decide to elope, have a more traditional wedding, or something in between, remember there is no right or wrong.
At the end of the day, no two couples will have the same wedding – some will prefer the lavish big wedding and some will love a small romantic elopement.
All we want is to help you decide how the wedding day of your dreams will look like and make that dream come true. whether that’s an elopement or not is up to you!
We can’t wait to help you elope – contact us
